It's cold and rainy on the farm today. While the weather has put a damper on my outdoor plans for the day, it does allow a little time to catch up on my posts. While I feel increasing pressure to get all of the planting done in gardens right now, it is rather nice to exhale and reflect on the recent whirlwind of activity.
Things have been extremely busy around the farm with all of the spring rituals of tilling, planting, building, repairing, pruning and enjoying the change of seasons. For some reason this past winter seemed particularly long and hard to me. I can't ever remember longing for spring as much as I did this year.
Our oldest daughter, Katherine, will be graduating from high school this upcoming weekend. The big graduation party scheduled for the middle of next month is also requiring activity and a critical eye when looking about the place. All of the, "Fix It," and, "ASAP," and, "Honey Do," lists have melted into one overwhelming (and at times discouraging) enormous list of tasks that have reached critical mass. My procrastination tendencies have been humiliatingly exposed once again and the success or failure of Katherine's party hangs in the balance.
It's amazing to me how perspective can change so dramatically. The piles of lumber and tools and benches in need of repair and the camper in need of a new camper aren't really an eyesore to me. They are symbols of my ambition, my handiness, and my industry. However, being mechanically-challenged, a procrastinator by nature, and overconfident in my own"fix-er-upper" abilities, these symbols tend to sit for a long time. A VERY long time.
But then something like a graduation party comes along and my perspective immediately changes. Suddenly I am seeing things the way I think my relatives may see things. And I am embarrassed for me.
In this condition my two-year debate about which type of hinge will be the right one for the garden shed door comes to an abrupt end. The second guessing is no longer as important as the fact that my brothers-in-law are coming out to the farm and the garden shed is still doorless. They wouldn't say anything about it, of course. They are too nice to do that. But I'll know that each of them will be shamefully shaking their heads on the inside, feeling pity for me and sorrow for their sister.
I can have none of that. I must not allow my manhood to be questioned by them or anyone else. My male ego needs to remain firmly intact. I must be seen as a, "Man's man," an "Everyday Joe." Especially since I sometimes write about cooking. And not just cooking but sometimes even cooking with flowers. And I haven't mentioned this before, but I like interior decorating too. Drives Lisa nuts.
So projects have been slowly but steadily removed from my lists. I have found new motivation to overcome my fear-of-failure for anything requiring a saw or a hammer or a drill. As each task is completed I have experienced the added benefit of sticking out my chest and showing my handiwork to my lovely bride. "Yeah, baby, I did that. Built that thing from scratch. Even cut down a tree and made the lumber myself. It was hard work, but I got 'er done. Guess I'm still a stud-muffin, eh?"
Despite the fever-pitched activity around here, I have still found time to forage for spring-time goodies. The fiddleheads that I gathered were delicious and a hit at our dinner table. They also worked well with my overloaded schedule as the prep time was about as minimal as it gets.
The most time consuming aspect of preparing fiddleheads is cleaning off the brown debris from last season's crop. I rinsed them in a colander but then cleaned each individually under running water.
I melted a couple tablespoons of butter and added a drizzle of olive oil to a pan. After it was heated I threw in the fiddleheads and added sea salt, fresh ground pepper, and a little onion powder and let them saute away. When they were fully cooked I set them in a dish and sprinkled some wood violets over them. While not really adding anything to the taste of the fiddleheads, they did help make a rather nice presentation. Besides, if you're going to eat fern, you might as well eat flowers too.
Things have been extremely busy around the farm with all of the spring rituals of tilling, planting, building, repairing, pruning and enjoying the change of seasons. For some reason this past winter seemed particularly long and hard to me. I can't ever remember longing for spring as much as I did this year.
Our oldest daughter, Katherine, will be graduating from high school this upcoming weekend. The big graduation party scheduled for the middle of next month is also requiring activity and a critical eye when looking about the place. All of the, "Fix It," and, "ASAP," and, "Honey Do," lists have melted into one overwhelming (and at times discouraging) enormous list of tasks that have reached critical mass. My procrastination tendencies have been humiliatingly exposed once again and the success or failure of Katherine's party hangs in the balance.
It's amazing to me how perspective can change so dramatically. The piles of lumber and tools and benches in need of repair and the camper in need of a new camper aren't really an eyesore to me. They are symbols of my ambition, my handiness, and my industry. However, being mechanically-challenged, a procrastinator by nature, and overconfident in my own"fix-er-upper" abilities, these symbols tend to sit for a long time. A VERY long time.
But then something like a graduation party comes along and my perspective immediately changes. Suddenly I am seeing things the way I think my relatives may see things. And I am embarrassed for me.
In this condition my two-year debate about which type of hinge will be the right one for the garden shed door comes to an abrupt end. The second guessing is no longer as important as the fact that my brothers-in-law are coming out to the farm and the garden shed is still doorless. They wouldn't say anything about it, of course. They are too nice to do that. But I'll know that each of them will be shamefully shaking their heads on the inside, feeling pity for me and sorrow for their sister.
I can have none of that. I must not allow my manhood to be questioned by them or anyone else. My male ego needs to remain firmly intact. I must be seen as a, "Man's man," an "Everyday Joe." Especially since I sometimes write about cooking. And not just cooking but sometimes even cooking with flowers. And I haven't mentioned this before, but I like interior decorating too. Drives Lisa nuts.
So projects have been slowly but steadily removed from my lists. I have found new motivation to overcome my fear-of-failure for anything requiring a saw or a hammer or a drill. As each task is completed I have experienced the added benefit of sticking out my chest and showing my handiwork to my lovely bride. "Yeah, baby, I did that. Built that thing from scratch. Even cut down a tree and made the lumber myself. It was hard work, but I got 'er done. Guess I'm still a stud-muffin, eh?"
Despite the fever-pitched activity around here, I have still found time to forage for spring-time goodies. The fiddleheads that I gathered were delicious and a hit at our dinner table. They also worked well with my overloaded schedule as the prep time was about as minimal as it gets.
Our patch of Ostrich fern behind the house. The area allotted to this delicacy will be increased dramatically next year. |
The most time consuming aspect of preparing fiddleheads is cleaning off the brown debris from last season's crop. I rinsed them in a colander but then cleaned each individually under running water.
I melted a couple tablespoons of butter and added a drizzle of olive oil to a pan. After it was heated I threw in the fiddleheads and added sea salt, fresh ground pepper, and a little onion powder and let them saute away. When they were fully cooked I set them in a dish and sprinkled some wood violets over them. While not really adding anything to the taste of the fiddleheads, they did help make a rather nice presentation. Besides, if you're going to eat fern, you might as well eat flowers too.
Much like the morel mushrooms on Hillsong Farm, my only complaint about fiddleheads is that there aren't enough of them. |